The Blessing of Family
One of the most wonderful blessings God has given us is family. The cool thing about family is that there is a connection between family members that defies logic and reason. There is a love for family that transcends understanding.
I’ve experienced a couple of examples of that this week.
First, my husband, son, and I had dinner on Friday night with my cousin’s son. I had never met him before and had only just met his dad (my cousin) for the first time last summer. But we had such a wonderful time visiting at dinner, talking about our shared experiences being related to some of the same people. Even though from a logical standpoint, he was a complete stranger to me, our immediate response when we saw each other was to give each other a hug. As we talked, I realized just how much like both my father and my son he is. I learned that he wears the same show size as both of them – which he referred to as “the Rowland curse.” I also learned that he really likes to talk to people, even strangers, which is another trait both my dad and my son share. As we ended our time together, we talked about the next time he might be in town and that we would get together again. I am already looking forward to that time and getting to know him even better.
Second, I talked on the phone with one of my sisters who is not doing very well right now, though I don’t want to go into detail here as to the struggles she is facing for privacy reasons. Not too long ago I did something that upset her, and so when I called her to tell her about the aforementioned visit that I had planned with our cousin I wasn’t sure she would want to talk to me. But there is something about family such that disagreements like ours become irrelevant when one family member is in need. As we talked on the phone, I just wanted to reach through the phone and give her a hug, to make things all better. I really wished I had a Star Trek transporter so I could be with her instead of just talking on the phone. Even though hearing about her struggles was upsetting, I wouldn’t give up the sadness I feel because of what she is going through for anything if it meant not having her as my sister.
Third, I talked to my other sister on the phone as well. Even though we haven’t talked on the phone in a long time, there was no awkwardness in the call. We share a closeness as sisters that doesn’t require that we talk on the phone or see each other every day or even every week. We can go months without talking and pick up right where we left off the last time we talked.
I know that sometimes the blessing and connection of family does breakdown and family members become so estranged and hateful towards one another that there seems to be no hope of reconciliation. Logic and reasoning step in to keep family members separated to prevent further hurt and pain. I am thankful that in my family that is the exception rather than the rule.
Our Christian family has a similar connection as our biological family. We can meet someone who is a complete stranger but who is also a believer and feel a connection that defies logic. There are similarly the exceptions to that rule. My prayer is that in both biological and Christian families the exceptions would be few and far between and that we would always cherish and appreciate the blessing of family.
Thank you, Linda
Lately I seem to have a ‘burden’ to spend time with my mom. I find myself missing her at odd moments, and when I call, I find she had been thinking of me in that moment too…. His connections are perfect.
Thank you for this post today. Of all the things that we are given, family brings a different level of comfort and love and peace that does defy logic… Thank you for reminding me how blessed I am.
Ann, What a blessing you have to be able to spend time with your mom – I miss mine so much. But I know what you mean about that burden or desire to spend time with family. I’ve been feeling that way about my sister and am trying to figure out how I can get away to go visit her soon. Peace, Linda
Thanks for such a beautiful reminder of the blessing of family, be it biological or Christian. 🙂 Praying with you for those connections to be cherished and appreciated. God bless you and your dear family! Also prayers for your sis!
The blessings of family are immeasurable. A very thoughtful post.
Thank you for stopping by and leaving such a nice comment. 🙂 Peace, Linda
I loved this post. It is so true. Some people like to use the phrase “Kindred Spirits”. I am reminded of this quote:
“Yes. Cornelia divides all the folks in the world into two kinds– the race that knows Joseph and the race that don’t.” – Captain Jim-Anne’s House of Dreams
Theresa, I like that quote. Thanks for adding it here. 🙂 Peace, Linda